Enjoy sex that's about pleasure,
not pressure

It’s a myth that women talk about sex easily more easily than men. Guys: if sex in the relationship with the woman you love is disappointing or non-existent, it’s down to you to lead the change. I'm Ruth Ramsay, sex educator and coach for heterosexual men, and I will give you the skills and knowledge to revolutionise your relationship. Become confident, masterful and relaxed in bed... and ensure you both experience such pleasure that you want to do it again, and again, and again.
Work with Me

Begin Your Journey
The top five things I want heterosexual men to know, plus a resource to begin your journey right away.

Expand Your Knowledge
Two foundational workshops that will revolutionise your skills and transform your experience in bed - and hers, too.

Achieve Mastery
Engage my unique personal support in a journey to true sexual mastery: confidence, connection and pleasure you'd never dreamt of.
Why believe I can help? I've been a trusted ear for men to talk about their sex lives for over 20 years. I offer you unique support, as a certified and experienced coach with a background in adult entertainment. You genuinely don't need to fear judgement from me: for your worries, desires, habits and fantasies. I share information and mindset shifts in a way you can understand and put into action fast, and my coaching style is upbeat, shame-free and crucially, kind.
Also, I've coached many woman struggling with the same issues as your partner/wife, and being myself an experienced, happily-married woman, can help you understand what she needs. I'm a trusted voice in the media and on stages around the world, and over 3.4 million people have viewed my TEDx talk, 'Revamp Your Sex Life In Six Minutes'.




